One minute you're high on the warmth of their attention, the next minute you're frozen out and left wondering what happened. Whether you call it push/pull, on/off, or hot and cold, the end result is the same. Whether done consciously or unconsciously, this type of behavior activates longing and pursuit. If we don't understand the game of hot and cold, we can find ourselves pulled into a drama of confusion. Understanding this type of behavior is crucial even for those of you committed to not playing games.
3 a.m.: Get a text from the guy I lost my virginity to when I was 18. 8 p.m.: Get a message from one of them, and it doesn’t start with ‘; P’.
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Location: Brooklyn, New York Looking for: Some form of emotional stability, and/or someone who is a reliably good fuck.
She hasn’t been in a relationship in over two years, but she’s also convinced every person she meets is going to change that.
It doesn't matter what the initial intentions are – not as if you know what the other person's intentions are anyway – on the first date you're either sleeping together or not.